My style
It struck me a while ago that my style of photography is quite different to many newborn and family photographers out there. I keep things simple, stripped back, straight forward.
Aesthetically, I think this is pleasing and the best way of doing things.
But there’s more to it than that.
For me, choosing not to use lots of props and backdrops and wraps means I’m choosing to focus purely on your baby. I believe wholeheartedly that your baby is enough.
They are gorgeous, perfect, and wonderful – just the way they are.
When I was growing up, I felt a constant need to strive for perfection. I still feel it. A mixture of strict parenting and always trying to please, I felt like I’d failed at something if I missed a point. During school, 9/10 for me, would have been a failure: why didn’t I get that extra point? I find it really hard sometimes to focus on the things I do well, to celebrate those wins rather than always striving to improve and do better. I’ve written more about that on my blog.
Over the years of practising photography, I’ve realised that my style, and my deep-held traits about perfectionism have combined. It happened naturally at first, I didn’t even realise why I was photographing in my particular style – only that I knew I liked it.
Perfection ain’t real
I’ve delved deep into my reasoning and now I realise that through my art, through photographing babies and newborns the way I do, I’m actually exploring the concept of perfection.
I’m exploring: what does it mean to be good enough?
And I’m asking: does perfection exist? And if so what does it look like? Can perfection actually include flaws and loving something for all that they are, not what they think they should look like?
So photographing in a simple and fresh way – just the baby – with a few neat camera techniques and simple backdrops, minimal wraps and so on: I’m actually forcing the viewing to look Baby straight in the face and say: ” Wow! Perfection”. To say, that baby is good enough – is perfect, in fact – in his own way.
Of course, all babies, all people are different. Different skin tones, different sizes, different characters, different features. Some babies have spots and freckles on their skin. Some have more hair than others. Some are fatter, thinner, shorter, taller. And so on. And yet each and every baby is perfect. And that’s to be celebrated.
#AsYouAreMotherhood
I feel so strongly about this that I’ve started a new campaign on social media called #asyouaremotherhood.
This campaign celebrates that as mums, we can’t and won’t always be ‘perfect’ when it comes to raising our children.
Still, we are doing our best, we are doing enough. And that really is enough.
We shouldn’t feel the constant need to improve and we shouldn’t feel so guilty when we get it wrong sometimes. Like with our children, we are good enough, just the way we are.
Check out the campaign and share your tips for doing things as you are, not how you think you should be!